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YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH...(PT 1 of a Series)
I am so sick of hearing people talking about "The Truth"! Especially WOMEN...
All I hear women say is: Don't lie to me. Tell me the TRUTH. Just talk to me...
Ladies, from a Grown Ass Man let me tell you in the words of Jack Nicholson when asked did he order the Code Red - "YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!"
You want the truth?? O.K. here's the truth about "lots" of men.
We love you! We really do. We want you in our lives. We want you to be our wives, girlfriends, and significant others. We want you to have our children and to help us turn a house into a home...
HOWEVER,
Sometimes when "your man" goes out to Sensations, Bar Flys, Cabana's, hell The Gas Station, he sees a woman and just says DAMN!! Man, I wonder what that "Be Like"...He may even introduce himself and try to coax a smile out of her. Guess what - Your man is attracted to other women and has thoughts of being with other women (lust). Sometimes, he even thinks about pursuing that "fine piece of..." and turning those thoughts into actions some MEN go that far, some MEN don't! But the TRUTH is that YOUR MAN can and some WILL creep up on a new piece of booty at any minute and there are plenty of women willing to play the game. NOW THAT'S SOME Truth Fo' Yo ASS!!!
Most men WISH we had a woman that we could say: "Dang, that chick right THERE!" without you flying off the ceiling. But we know we can't be THAT honest with you. Most men WISH they could talk about the attraction they have for other women to THEIR woman, but they know the consequences are DIRE! Talking about it might ease some of the cheating and BS that goes on but men learn in their High School relationships that Honest is Not Always The Best Policy!
So stop asking for the TRUTH all the damn time...you really don't want to hear it anyways!!!
Now...Who Ordered The Code Red???
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Comment by Justine Marie Puckett on August 7, 2009 at 10:04am
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Being sensitve does not anything to do with it. Just letting you know I can handle the truth and anything you say here and your opinion whether you agree with my response or not. It does not make me right or wrong this is just what I think and feel about this topic and "My mother always said if you can't stand the heat stay out of the kitchen". Sounds like some one is getting offended. Oh well Lol!!!!!! Still got much Luv 4 ya....
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@ Kenny Can you handle the truth??? re-read what you wrote you stated "Women" so that included me too" All women are not the same and you came hard on us. So your strong black sista had 2 too. Lol!!!
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Hey Robin you Go Girl! I agree with everything you are saying. No need to apolgize speak your mind girl it's the truth.Yea I am wondering the same thing where is the men responses to this. And WHERE IN THE HELL IS KENNY??? BRING IT ON...Are you trapped in the closet now??? LMAO.....
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Comment by Kenny Smoov on August 7, 2009 at 9:37am
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@ Justine. What is with the comment: "I'd rather have a woman that turns my head instead of have my back"?? Quote something I said in this blog that would let you deduce that kind of reasoning. This blog was to induce conversation about a topic most people are afraid to touch. Actually it stemmed from a conversation I had with a male friend who's kinda going through it.
As far as generalizing. I blog and talk to 1000's of people everyday so there will be some generalizing in my statements. But like the wisest women I know - My Momma - taught me a long time ago: "A Hit Dog Barks". If these comments don't pertain to you don't bark. You sound suspect. I know there are women that can handle the truth and I know there are those that don't. I get that. But this blog is to catch those who can't and get sensitive when put on "front street". Is that YOU?
Either way, yall know I love you and these conversations are tough, but HEALTHY.
Let's continue.
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You are very welcome last2long2002 as you see we have to stand up for ourselves. It is real bad when men/some men such as (Kenny) as it seems would rather have a woman who turns his head, Then a woman who has his back.
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Comment by Karen W. Loney on August 6, 2009 at 1:15pm
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Ok Kenny, now that you have voiceD your opinion on this topic..Question...Can YOU handle the TRUTH...if the shoe were on the other foot??? Can you handle HER (you lady, wife) going over to another man and "harmlessly flirting" as I see you are trying to say. You know you MEN can say we women can't handle the truth, WE WOMEN CAN!!!!!! How well can you MEN HANDLE THE TRUTH--would you think differently of her when she harmlessly flirts with another man and you actually witness it??? Will different thoughts be put in your mind????
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Lol!! ThankYou Robin well said... you are exactly right All women are not the same, I like topics like this because I have been through it all "I'm allergic to drama"and No woman should not have to take that BS from a man.
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I ordered the Code Red!! and I can handle the truth and the BS that is coming with it. Sounds like someone is very confused and caught up Lol!!! Stop playing games and be upfront if you can't tell the truth then don't tell a lie. A "real man" is not gonna even let it come through his mouth about his attraction,lust for another woman to his mate, friend etc... And if he 100% genuine and loves his woman, wife, girlfriend, significant other it ain't gonna matter what is in front of him even if you are "butter ball naked" It does not hurt to look but when you start talking about other stuff yes I will have a problem with it.What looks good to you is not always good for you. You know what you got but you don't know what you are getting into always keep that in mind. Talking about your attraction to your mate is not gonna ease the cheating this I disagree on. If you are thinking about it more then likely it is gonna happen. What happen to Trust and Respecting your woman, or what ever she is to you. I rather be with a man who is 100% real/genuine then a man who turned my neck in a club or at a gas station. Now...Who Ordered The Code Red???
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