What The Hell Is ROMANCE - WTF Man???

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Comment by Justine Marie Puckett on June 16, 2009 at 3:58pm

You are exactly right, I feel that both men and women take the littlest things for granted and we don't realize it until it is gone. It's the littlest things that counts and littlest things that will hurt you.

Justine

Comment by Vega Tigarrius on June 16, 2009 at 3:29pm

The little things get overlooked very easily. It's a thin line between small signs of love and expectations. When the little things turn into expectations the relationship is in trouble. For example if you pay a bill or wash the car, then over time the person simply expects that from you and when you stop or don't do it as much it's as if you are not doing the things you "should" be doing. The problem here is that each time you do something that is "expected" you will never get a true appreciation for your actions. If your woman cooks you dinner or your man brings in the groceries don't let these things go unnoticed. You have to remember 1) just because it wasn't what you would thought as being a "romantic gesture" doesn't make it any less of a gesture of love and 2) the things you take for granted someone else will notice in a heartbeat...and then you will wish you still had the little things they once shared.

Vega

Comment by Mona on June 15, 2009 at 3:04pm

I agree with you totally. But some women base romance on what they see in the media or what their friends tell them. Futhermore, men and women do not understand each other fully. We sometimes just don't make sense to one another.

Comment by Chondrika on June 15, 2009 at 2:35pm

I am single but I agree 100%!!!!! The small gestures can actually be good when you're trying to get into the relationship. Something like just sending a card to say hey I was thinking about you.

Comment by Tawana+Jones on June 15, 2009 at 2:29pm

I agree wholeheartedly. We do a lot for one another but it really is the simple things. Like last nite: he goes to work at 2 a.m. and is really tired of his job but wants to still provide for me. So, i leave him little love notes on certain days in his car just to let him kno that he's appreciated. The little things can move mountains!

Comment by Alice on June 15, 2009 at 1:35pm

Yeah we forget that little things mean so much, but often taken for granted. Even as simple making a phone call to just say hello.

Comment by Miss Lisa on June 15, 2009 at 12:57pm

Preach this is what Im talkin about. Its not about the material things, its about the small things that matter in life.

Comment by Montique on June 15, 2009 at 12:57pm

I agree. It is about remembering the small, everday things. For example: if you know your mate likes a certain food, surprise him/her at lunch with it. Dont wait until a holiday or anniversary. Little things go a long way.