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Top 5: Reasons Black Men Date White Women
Many black women get furious when they see a brother walking down the street hand-in-hand with a white woman. The first question that probably comes to her mind is, "Why is he with her? She isn't even cute." Well, here are the top 5 reason why some black men have decided to date white women:
- They don't blame all their problems on black men. You're beautiful, educated, successful, but yet you can't keep a man. Maybe you should stop getting you relationship advice from someone other than Steve Harvey.
- They understand that a woman can be independent without emasculating every man in her path. We know that you don't "need no man to take care of you" or are you going to bend over backwards to make a man happy, but there is something to the idea of making a man feel like a man.
- They don't worship their pastors and judge their men by church attendance. You really think that a man in the church is more ethical, kind and considerate than the rest of them? Yeah, right.
- They don't think that material success and physical attraction are everything. If you listen to some sisters talk, the entire conversation is about with how good they look, how educated they are, and why no man is smart enough to appreciate it. Probably because you are judging yourself and other people on shallow and superficial attributes, which equals a shallow and superficial life.
- They don't consider you a failure if you struggle economically. The most humiliating thing in the world is a woman who clowns a man for not having enough money.
This list obviously does NOT reflect that of most black women, but it is definitely something to think about.
Source: Madame Noire
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Comment by Denise G on October 6, 2010 at 12:00pm
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To all the other responses, I totally agree with everything that was said. I would like to add that many times i question what is wrong with the sisters when I see a black man with a white woman. However, if I look at it with a mature mind, it all boils down to who makes you happy. We are all trting to find happiness today and if that works for them...more power to you. Do The Thang!!!!
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Comment by Jackie on October 6, 2010 at 11:59am
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A black man can date whatever color he wants, however not all black women feel this way about the reasons why black men date white women.
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Comment by AFrame on October 6, 2010 at 10:12am
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@ Vega.. So true!..that's the way I think. There are sooo many other important things to worry about than what race is dating the other.
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Comment by Vega Tigarrius on October 6, 2010 at 9:56am
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I agree with most of this list. My gf is white and the one before that was white. I think the list should also have a #6 that says...the man actually likes her as a human being beyond race. It's funny b/c LOTS of black women look at me sideways when I'm with her, but if I see a black woman with a white man (or any inter racial couple for that matter) I don't think twice about it. I have much better things to worry about, like my mortgage, my career goals, and my impact on the people that have been placed in my life.
and @ Brenda Driver...good for you. My mom and all of my family have been equally accepting of anyone (black/white/latina) that I bring home. As long as your son is happy, what difference does there race make. I applaud you...and wish there were more like you.
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Comment by Brenda Driver (Davis) on October 6, 2010 at 9:17am
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Hey all I have to say is do what you do, as long as both of you are happy with each other.
as a kid growing up I was never taught color as i had my two kids I never taught them color either.my son
is with a white lady never treat her any different, she makes him happy, and he makes her happy.
so just to let you know all black women don't think alike. may god bless.
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