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Top 5: Reasons Black Men Date White Women
Many black women get furious when they see a brother walking down the street hand-in-hand with a white woman. The first question that probably comes to her mind is, "Why is he with her? She isn't even cute." Well, here are the top 5 reason why some black men have decided to date white women:
- They don't blame all their problems on black men. You're beautiful, educated, successful, but yet you can't keep a man. Maybe you should stop getting you relationship advice from someone other than Steve Harvey.
- They understand that a woman can be independent without emasculating every man in her path. We know that you don't "need no man to take care of you" or are you going to bend over backwards to make a man happy, but there is something to the idea of making a man feel like a man.
- They don't worship their pastors and judge their men by church attendance. You really think that a man in the church is more ethical, kind and considerate than the rest of them? Yeah, right.
- They don't think that material success and physical attraction are everything. If you listen to some sisters talk, the entire conversation is about with how good they look, how educated they are, and why no man is smart enough to appreciate it. Probably because you are judging yourself and other people on shallow and superficial attributes, which equals a shallow and superficial life.
- They don't consider you a failure if you struggle economically. The most humiliating thing in the world is a woman who clowns a man for not having enough money.
This list obviously does NOT reflect that of most black women, but it is definitely something to think about.
Source: Madame Noire
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Comment by Rachel Wade on October 8, 2010 at 6:49pm
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Relationships are hard and you have to work at them..... black or white As stated on a previous comment you can"t help who you fall in love with. Black women should be more open to dating outside our race, try it you might like it.... lol
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Comment by Deneen on October 8, 2010 at 1:55am
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Boy you all should stop... Alrite. 1 thru 10 The Black man can do whatever they want even sleep with their Mother and it is alrite. They will never say anything. They will sleep with your Family & Freinds. Black men treat white women like a piece of gold.... (SOOOOO SAD!!!) They will do anything from the rooter to the tooter. You can walk all over them and they will never say a word. Black Men say Black women are so bad but we are only bad when you make us... When you see a Black Woman with a White man you best to believe she is taking care of her BUSINESS and he is taking care of her, So Do Not get mad.. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.... The White man will pay the check and the Tip.. Open the door for you put your seat belt on and all of that.... But all of you that want a White Woman when they get you they are going to go hard to destroy You.... So Good Luck... ~MIRACLES & BLESSINGS~
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Im going to keep my opinion to myself, but I will say God sees no color and God is love
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Comment by Glory Johnson on October 7, 2010 at 6:29pm
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I'M A POSITIVE BLACK SISTA WHO DOESN'T CARE WHO DATES WHO!! I DO THINK THAT BLACK WOMEN SHOULD LOVE THEMSELVES FOR WHO THEY ARE AND STOP THE JEALOUSY OF ANY OTHER WOMEN, PERIOD, (NO MATTER THE COLOR). THIS JEALOUSY COMES ABOUT WHEN A WOMEN THINK SHE CAN BE EASILY REPLACED. NO MATTER IF YOU ARE LIGHT SKINNED WITH LONG HAIR OR DARK WITH KINKY HAIR, YOU SHOULD BE POSITVE IN YOUR OWN SKIN. (I) CANNOT BE REPLACED!!! ANOTHER WOMEN CAN ONLY FILL YOUR SPACE, BUT NEVER TAKE YOU PLACE!!!! SO ALL BLACK SISTAS LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! NOW BLACK BROTHAS IF YOU ARE CHOOSING WHITE WOMEN FOR ANY OTHE REASON THAN LOVING HER FOR WHO SHE IS (CHARACTER) THEN THAT'S WHEN YOU NEED TO CHECK YOURSELVES. GOD BLESS!!
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Say what you want but this list from Madam Noire is the TRUTH! I'm old school and happily married to a beautiful black woman (20 yrs), however i've observed the way black women carry themselves and see how they treat the brothas; love is pretty much non existent and most of the single women i've seen are selfish and materialistic. So from that perspective, I understand why some brothas choose to date white women or outside of the race. I'm not saying this is true of all black women, i know a few who are old school and they want a black MAN, not a boy. So the brotha's need to step up and be men, by the same token the sista's need to be women and everyone should stop acting like these fakes in music and hollywood. Stop watching reality television and live in the real world and live life as its presented to you.
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Comment by Mozella on October 7, 2010 at 1:06am
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Oh well and might i add that might be the same reason a black woman dates white men.....................I know I have for over 20 years but I am old school i am in it for love, not social gain.
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THE REASONS WHY BLACK MEN DATE WOMEN IS BECAUSE 1. THEY CAN TALK THEM INTO ANYTHING 2THEY WILL SPEND THEIR ENTIRE PAYCHECK ON THEM TO KEEP THEM HAPPY 3 THEY CAN BE TOLD ANYTHING AND THEY WILL BELIEVE IT SUCKERS 4 THEY DO ALOT OF THINGS THAT A BLACK WOMAN WANT DO 5 THEY ARE JUST PLAIN OLE' STUPID! THEY PAY OUT MONEY TO TRY TO LOOK LIKE THA BLACK WOMAN. WE WHERE JUST BLESSED
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Comment by LaTamera on October 6, 2010 at 3:12pm
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thanks for the love RODNEY! thank YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! LOVE IS LOVE Madame Noire can kick rocks!
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Alright Rodney!!!! Kudos to you brother.
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Comment by Rodney D. Smith on October 6, 2010 at 2:50pm
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The truth of the matter is this; statistically speaking, there is only roughly 10% of black men who marry white women. With that being said, we as a people (black people) should stop spreading inaccurate propaganda. It's just that many of our high profile brothers (athletics and actors) have married outside the race and we see it plastered over the media constantly. As I think about, I can only think of two brothers that I personally know, out of hundreds maybe thousands, that are with white women. The truth of the matter is this, most brothers are madly in love with our sisters. I sure am. I am happily married to a beautiful, dread-locked, diaspora loving sister soulja and wouldn't have it any other way.
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