Question: What the hell is "DATING?" I mean really let's ALL define this! Yall women are moving the lines (YEAH I SAID IT!!!) and we all need to have a solid definition before dudes are in a "relationship" that we don't know of...Let's discuss>>>
Lol! Kenny has responded back, Thanks for responding back Kenny but I started quizzing male/female friends of mines to get an answer and you want believe the answers especially from the "Men" of course coming from the male prospective it's always the women who is are moving the freakin line and my response was I just smiled and said whatever cuz I know I don't do it.
Comment by Kenny Smoov on August 1, 2009 at 9:19pm
O.K. Moving the lines - means that dating should be a casual experience of people getting to know one another. In dating, you CAN see other people. However, some women take dating as a "low level" committment and FREAK OUT when their friends say - "Girl I just saw dude out with some chick!" We are just kicking it. But to some women take date, dating, and "we're dating" into this one massive blob of "misunderstanding" thereby moving the lines (a football term that indicates which line marks 1st Down). The lines of communication and understanding must be firm. STOP MOVING THE LINES LADIES....lmao cause I know yall about to kill me.
I've always been the exception, and I guess I am here too. Words sometime denote different meanings to different people, so in situations such as this, it's helpful to use the word in a sentence. For example, "he and I are dating". That, to me, indicates some level of commitment. Whereas, "he and I are friends, and we go out on occasion" would not. That's just my opinion, and "dating" can mean one thing to one person and something totally different to someone else. That's why it's so important to communicate expectations in any type of relationship.
Comment by D. Victoria on July 22, 2009 at 11:00pm
Dating in my opinion is spending time with a person (movies, out to eat, etc.) without placing any labels on the relationship.
I'm only gonna address your question What the hell is "Dating?" that other part about yall women moving the lines I really do not understand what you are saying. Dating to me is another form of friendship. Dating should not include Sex and "Communication" is the key. I feel that if you are dating allow the friendship to grow because if it does not work at least we can still be friends. Dating does not mean you are committed to that person while trying to get to know them. When dating you can pursue whom ever with no strings attached and if that is the case be honest with each other that way no one is being mislead. Now this my take on Dating.
****Okay you got me thinking now, What hell does moving the lines mean?
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