Ladies: Your Man Needs To Do THIS Tonight!!

(BlackMediaScoop) Yeh baby! A recent study showed that a whopping 75 percent of people think they’re the ISH in bed. This might be wishful thinking, but the poll inspired us to ask some real women one major question: What actually makes a man a star in the sack? Here’s what they had to say…

He Focuses on You

“Point of focus makes a man good in bed: Is he focusing on you or himself? I started dating a not-so-hot guy—who was kinda built like a tubby hobbit—who rocked my world sexually. He cherished every inch of my body and paid attention to each subtle detail of my enjoyment…for hours.” —Valerie P.

He Pays Attention

“A guy who responds to feedback—faster, slower, softer, harder, and so on—will get a real orgasm out of me. Every woman is different. There is nothing worse than an ‘I’ll show you how it’s done’ attitude.” —Mary P.

He Makes You Feel Special…In a Sexy Way

“What makes a guy good in bed is when he makes me believe that I am the only one that gets him so aroused—that just the thought of me is enough to get him going and that I can make him excited with a few touches.” —Miranda K.

He’s in for the Whole Experience

“What makes a guy good in bed is his knowing that really good sex isn’t just about two body parts meeting but two whole bodies coming together for an amazing, pleasurable experience.” —Nikki R.

He’s Got the Goods

“A great kisser and a set of jewels worthy of my crown!” —Teresa F.

He’s Kinda Kinky

“He needs to be adventurous. That is, nonjudgmental and willing to venture outside the sexual box—anything from biting or spanking to role-playing or BDSM. Nothing kills the vibe faster than feeling like a guy is judging you for what you like in bed.” —Elle G.

He Understands My Body

“I honestly think the most important thing is to know a woman’s body: What does what, how to manipulate it, and being genuinely interested in giving pleasure as well as receiving it.” —Eileen W

He Can Take Feedback Like a Champ

“If he’s open to suggestions from you and doesn’t take it personally when you give him some instruction. Plus, someone who can find your G-spot and get the job done.” —Tracy B.

He Stays in the Moment

“I love a man who is 100 percent present in his body and with me. Yes, men who meditate make better lovers!” —Sherry R.