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Is This Dirty...Or Fair GAME?
I've liked this guy for a really long time. Naturally, my best friend knew all about it. She knew about every little flirtation that happened between us, every time I thought something was going to happen and it didn't, and pretty much all of our conversations in general.
Well, I was out of town for a while and I got a phone call from my friend saying she hooked up with the guy a few times while I was gone.
I was really upset but she said that I had no right to be because I wasn't dating him or anything. Isn't there some sort of unwritten friendship code that says friends can't hook up with their friends' crushes? Or does it not count since I wasn't officially dating the guy? I don't know if I still want to be friends with her anymore, but I'm not sure if I am overreacting.
Thanks,
Madison
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Comment by MRS.MC on March 9, 2011 at 8:39pm
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MEN !!!!!!!!!!
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Comment by Special J on March 9, 2011 at 7:11am
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Women need to learn to stay in their places. A man will only go as far as a woman will let him.. Maybe your friedn was having some self esteem isssues and needed a refresher course. A friend is a friend. NOT "SHADY" but a friend. I love my best friend and I could put her in a room with 10 naked men and she would not touch one if she knew that I was interested in them all. We need to make sacrifices for our friends. A woman that is always in a man's face is never good. Ever wonder why "WOMEN" come up missing??? ALWAYS IN A MAN'S FACE!!! Madison, at you really don't need this person in your life. (THE FRIEND NOR THE MAN.) Women should be strong enough to put a man in his place at all times. The bed is not always the place. Good luck Madison and God bless you!!!
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Comment by Thaddeus Lewis on March 9, 2011 at 2:30am
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First off, the man doesn't seem to be at fault. A single man is going to flirt with a woman in hopes to one day formulate some type of relationship. Whether it be sexual or otherwise. If this lady didn't let the guy know how much she was really feeling him and her friend did and capitalized on it, then that's between them. It does seem like a violation of the friend code, but if the guy wasn't in a relationship with this female, then at the end of the day he was fair game. Closed mouths don't get fed.
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So she's angry with her "Friend" ? What about the guy? Obviously she didn't mean anything to him either or he
wouldn't have started a relationship with the "Friend". But hey he's a man and all's fair with them,RIGHT?
Kick both their A<>s to the curb!
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Comment by Connie McClain on March 8, 2011 at 3:55pm
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This person was never your friend. Just imagine that it was your husband instead of a crush. Would you still think that you were overreacting? You will never be able to trust her and that's what people do that really want to be in your shoes.
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Comment by harriet bean on March 8, 2011 at 12:33pm
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You are not overreacting, that is a no, no. She knew you had a crush on him and she should have never ever ever hooked up with him. She was not your friend in the first place.
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Comment by Loretta on March 8, 2011 at 12:23pm
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Why is she EVEN posing the question? This young lady evidently doesn't know what the word "friendship" means. She should be directed to a dictionary first. No "friend" would do this to her. SMH for real....
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Comment by alice johnson on March 8, 2011 at 11:25am
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r u serious?? what kinda crack they sellin there? who does that?
that ain't a friend. thats just like in high school a good friend of mine said she was gonna talk to this guy and get us together, i'm doin all i can then next thing i know, they go together,
r u serious. that aint a friend, but if u cant see that and have to wonder and ask then maybe thats what u need in your life. keep it gucci and tell her you louie v,,,,and be out. good luck
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