Do All Women (at some point) Take Good Sex For Granted??????

As much as I try, I guess there are just some things about women that I will never understand. For example.... Why is it that once a relationship has been established and years have been invested, that sex begins to either be taken for granted or for whatever reason begin to "fall off"? As I write this I may get the answer to my own question, but I'll throw it out there just in case someone else may be having the same experience. In the beginning, once the intial attraction is made, the question of sexual compatibility is one that must be answered. Being a man of a certain age, having my share of good and bad experiences (like most people) I am fully aware of my own personal likes and dislikes as well as my freaky limitations. I would like to say that from a "performance" stand point, I don't think I have any issues other than I have better days than others because nobody gives 100% all of the time as much as they would like to. But for the most part, I consider myself to be pretty virile for my age without the aid of any performance enhancing stimulants (LOL). Anyway once the compatibility question has been satisfactorily answered, one can begin to connect to dots in other areas of the relationship. That's not to say that sex is the most important component of a relationship but it makes things a little easier (along with money, but that's another show). Anyway, as time moves on, and feelings become involved, you begin to learn more & more about each other. Through the good and bad times your relationship grows in a relatively positive direction. However, for some reason you notice that the "sexual enthusiam" that you thought was mutually shared, begins to wane. And more often than not, the woman decides she wants to "ration" the sex out. Why is that???? In the beginning, she couldn't get enough, now she can take it or leave it. Then comes the excuses...... she thinks she's too fat (but I happen to like some meat on her bones- the bigger the cushion, the better the pushin', feel me?). Then she starts coming to bed with padlock outfits on, you know the ones- the ones you gotta pull and tug on. Where every turn she takes in the bed puts you further and further away from what you want until you have frustrated yourself for half the damn night. Or how about the arguments over nothing just so she has yet another excuse not to give you any. And if all else fails, they try to use your own sexual appetite against you. Saying silly shit like "is that all you want me for?" Uh.... no, I want YOU because I happen to love you & although this may not be the only way I can show you, at 1 o'clock in the morning can we just move this furniture around in this motherf----, ok I'm getting upset, breathe. Ok I'm back, seriously why is that & what is a man to do? Now I am not an advocate of infidelity but I do believe in getting your recommended daily allowance. And if you are in a committed relationship, it should be with your significant other though I am not opposed to self gratification if that floats your boat in a pinch- do you. Nobody should have to suffer through a sex reccession especially when they have never been told that they are the problem. Sometimes I think that I should show her what the reverse feels like but honestly, I'm not built like that. Sex is not just something to do whenever I get the urge especially with someone I'm in love with. All I have to do is look at her and I'm instantly turned on. To be continued..........